Wisdom in Relationships

Wise people are helpful. “Do not withhold good from those who deserve it, when it is in your power to act.” (Proverbs 3:27)

 

It is our responsibility to help those in need and to share what we have with the poor. The Bible teaches, “As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.” (Galatians 6:10)

 

We should certainly give what we can conveniently spare but, sometimes, the need may be beyond the edge of our convenience. "Give to the one who begs from you, and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you." (Matthew 5:42)

 

Be ready to give what is needed when it is needed. “Do not say to your neighbor, ‘Go, and come back, and tomorrow I will give it,’ when you have it with you.” (Proverbs 3:28)

 

Have you ever been approached by someone who needs help and didn’t want to be bothered. Jesus told us about a judge who had the opportunity to help, but he just kept putting the woman off until she finally wore him down (Luke 18.) Don’t delay. You may be the answer to someone's prayer. “Anyone, then, who knows the good he ought to do and doesn’t do it, sins.” (James 4:17)

 

Wise people are peaceful. “Do not devise evil against your neighbor, for he dwells by you for safety’s sake.” (Proverbs 3:29)

 

A wise person does not intentionally plan to do evil. To be neighborly, we must trust one another. Acting malevolently toward our neighbor is violating the trust placed in us. Romans 12:18 admonishes us to do what is right and appropriate to live at peace with all people.

 

Furthermore, we are advised, “Do not strive with a man without cause, if he has done you no harm.” (Proverbs 3:30)

 

Peacemakers avoid quarrels and reduce tension, seeking solutions rather than arguments. Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” (Matthew 5:9)

 

Wise people are fair. “Do not envy the violent or choose any of their ways.” (Proverbs 3:31)

 

It is unwise to belittle others. Treat people fairly and justly. Instead of belittling others, bless them. Instead of throwing your weight around to get your way, work for the benefit of others. Make others feel important and then you can really be someone special.