Friday, February 06, 2026

From Obligation to Belonging

Sean Murphy’s connection to the church began unexpectedly. Assigned community service, Murphy asked to serve somewhere close to home. A decision that brought him to the Highland Park Community Assistance Network on the BT Campus. At first, he expected to do little more than complete the required hours by helping at the thrift store and food pantry. Instead, relationships began to form. “I just kept coming and it became a regular thing,” he said.

He began attending worship and Bible study with his wife, Nancy and daughter, Makala. They felt welcome and the Holy Spirit began to work on their hearts. Nancy and Makala made a public commitment to Christ and were baptized last year. Nancy sings and plays guitar with the church praise band.

Murphy describes himself as a handyman, a role shaped as much by necessity as by skill. “When something broke, nobody knew how to fix it and we ended up having to pay somebody,” he said. So, he learned to work with hands.

He worked in construction until a falling beam nearly crushed his leg. “I almost lost my leg. I was real lucky,” he said

Now retired, Murphy is present at the church most days. He helps where he can—fixing appliances, tending to the landscape, assembling meal packs for the homeless, whatever is needed. He is not only a handyman, but he plays the guitar and cooks. “It's giving me a sense of purpose, and I feel like I'm actually doing something,” he said.

Deacon Vernon Liverett said, “I have seen that when Sean gets involved with something, he becomes totally committed to it. He does research and will learn new skills to become more proficient at that activity.”

Murphy’s spiritual journey has had some twists and turns. He was raised Catholic but his grandmother, while Catholic, also practiced tarot reading during the Great Depression to support her family—a detail Murphy recounts with both irony and affection. As a young adult, he explored a wide range of religious traditions, including the Mormon Church and Wicca.

When Murphy began to read a Bible provided to him be the Gideons, he came full circle to Christianity. Opening it at random, he encountered the story of Job. The suffering was so overwhelming that he could not finish the account at the time, unaware that restoration followed loss. Still, the experience marked a turning point. “Now I find myself doing it more and more with Bible study and hearing the sermons in church and just kind of being more active than I've ever been in a church setting before,” he said.

Under the gentle and steady discipleship of Minister of Outreach, Daniel Arredondo and Liverette, Murphy committed himself to following Christ and was baptized on February first this year.

Murphy does not frame his faith in doctrinal terms. He speaks of following Jesus through action—helping others, fixing what’s broken, showing up when someone needs help. For him, faith has become more present and embodied than ever before.

Church is a place where he belongs, contributes, and grows. Murphy’s faith is active and grounded in compassion. He helps because he knows what it is like to need help—and not receive it. That knowledge shapes both his work and his walk.