A
rumor is a piece of information that is passed along without regard
to its truth. They are often half-truths and sometimes complete
fabrications. They can cause a lot of damage, even when not intended
to do harm. The Bible compares the tongue to a spark that can start a
forest fire (James 3:5-6). Like a forest fire, rumors can grow out of
control.
In
1 Thessalonians 5:21 we are admonished to examine or test what we
hear and hold on to the truth. The Bible calls this discernment. A
Christian needs discernment because Satan (the father of lies) will
deceive us if we are not careful. He will play on the desires of some
to believe the worst in people.
We
must be very careful about what we believe and what we pass on. Jesus
said, “But I tell you that everyone will have to give account on
the day of judgment for every empty word they have spoken. For by
your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be
condemned (Matthew 12:36-37 NIV)”
The
power of the tongue is magnified by technology. First it was the
telephone, then the fax, the email and, now, Facebook. Each
exponentially magnified the power of the rumor. I determined long ago
not to pass along internet rumors. I will not stake my reputation on
a forwarded email or anything that begins, “Facebook is at it
again.” To pass it on means that I believe it to be true and am
adding my approval.
Rumors
run rampant in the workplace, at school and in the church. When it is
directed at an individual it can be cyber-bullying and has led to
more than one suicide. Be extra careful when talking about an
individual. Defamation put in writing is libel and can cause someone
to sue you.
I'm
not sure that it is ever appropriate for a Christian to say negative
things about people or institutions. The Apostle Paul wrote, “Do
not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what
is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it
may benefit those who listen (Ephesians 4:29 NIV).”
It
is certainly wrong if the intent is malicious, “A
perverse person stirs up conflict, and a gossip separates close
friends (Proverbs 16:28 NIV).”
Take
care when you post something on line. It will be a permanent record;
it will be seen by more people than you thought; and it will say as
much about you as it does about the other person or institution.
The
discerning heart seeks knowledge,
but
the mouth of a fool feeds on folly.
Proverbs
15:14 (NIV)
